Saturday, October 15, 2011

Fatal attraction.

Like a moth to a flame, all of us are drawn into a love relationship. An all consuming passion that eventually destroys both partners. Yet we all need it, like manure to a plant, rain on a parched desert, and oxygen for our lungs~ it brings its own warmth, like a blazing fire of desire in the winter of our hearts. What is it about love that in its wake it brings about so much grief in its aftermath. When you are deeply in love even this pain turns into a blessing that will haunt our lives. Once you realize the fickle nature of love and that you can’t have everything for ever, you must learn to let go. The quest is over, so settle down, savor the moments and enjoy what you have.
So instead of bemoaning what cannot be, out of this relationship, it is better to celebrate what you did have for sometime. Enjoy the emotion piecemeal and let the resultant energy fuel the next phase of your journey. Why destroy all these ephemeral pleasures in the hope of an elusive, unreal everlasting love.
In a sea of chaos, if one persons company actually helps you garner calm and happiness, does it matter if he /she is really not wholly or truly devoted to you?

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