The Ten Phallacies.

The “Ten Commandments” when it was first inscribed in stone centuries ago, during the dark ages had no relevance then as it has today. Dona Juana gets smart and changes the rules of engagement. I think these new “Ten Phallacies” should be an integral part of our lives to fully understand why relationships don’t last. As they say the “Boy Scouts” and “Girl Guides” so here goes … preface by Vinay-
Phallacy-1. If he loves me, he’ll be faithful forever.-Truth. His loving you has nothing to do with his being faithful. Some men are monogamous, most aren’t’, the sexy ones usually aren’t. Monogamy lasts, three months, or at best three years with most men. Often it lasts just about long enough to get you pregnant. Nature has a reason for this, men are programmed to spread their seed as widely as possible and women to raise live healthy babies. Human babies take a long time to grow to self-sufficiency unlike animals- as you may have noticed. Some men lie better than others but lying is endemic in the species. Some few paragons of males are faithful, most cheat. The question is; can you stand it? If the cheating is not blatant and disrespectful and you get a lot out of the relationship in other ways (a friend, a lover, a father to your kids, an economic partner), then consider these alternatives; you can accept his cheating gracefully and at the same time extract emotional and financial benefits from his guilt, you can cheat discreetly yourself – if (and only if) you enjoy it (not for spite). You can realize it has noting to do with you. He does it for his manhood, not against you womanhood.